Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Should Christians Drink Alcohol?
This question has been a divisive issue for as many years as Christianity has been around.  Many denominations forbid any consumption of alcohol at all and you can be kicked out in some churches.  What about the alcohol that is found in some cough medicines?  Is it wrong for Christians to drink this too?  Some churches have even divided over this issue.  It is a stumbling block for some believers while for others they see no problem at all with having a beer once in a while or a glass of wine at dinner.

I write this article because of something that I posted on my Facebook timeline which read:



Really, it was funny and I could relate. I am not a drinker per se, but I do like a glass of red wine or two with dinner on occasion. Am I drunk after drinking those two glasses of wine? No. Do I drink everyday? Heck, I don't drink every week much less every day. A whole bottle of wine will sit around my house for months. I am not even what you would call a "social" drinker. So because of the conversation on my timeline. I started to delve into what the scriptures really said. Here it goes:
   
In the Old Testament and the New Testament there are many scriptures about alcohol and I could not find even one Scripture that strictly prohibits the drinking of alcohol.  Even strong drink is mentioned but this may refer to something that is more fermented than wine, much like that of hard liquor. No where in the scriptures did it say, "Thou shall not drink at all."

Can A Christian Drink AlcoholDo Not Be Drunk

The Bible is clear that drunkards will not inherit the Kingdom of God.  First Corinthians 6:9-10 says, ".............. nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortionists will inherit the kingdom of God.”  Romans 13:13 has another warning about drunkenness: Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdness and lust, not in strife and envy.”

The problem of drinking alcohol is not the alcohol itself because Paul tells Timothy to Stop drinking only water, and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses (1 Tim 5:23).  I think that this part needs to be repeated in bold lettering. The problem of drinking alcohol is not the alcohol itself. It is the person USING the alcohol! Surely if alcohol was a sin, Paul would not have recommended it to Timothy who was a pastor. There is some medical evidence that a little wine is helpful, not only to the stomach, but for the body in general, however anything in excess is nothing but trouble. Solomon wrote, “Wine is a mocker, Strong drink is a brawler, And whoever is led astray by it is not wise (Pro 20:10).  Here, Solomon mentions strong drink being a “brawler” and I have heard too many experiences where there are fights in bars and clubs due to excessive alcohol consumption.  The same would apply to having too much wine or beer.

Alcohol lead to a judgment in error even for Noah: And Noah began to be a farmer, and he planted a vineyard.  Then he drank of the wine and was drunk, and became uncovered in his tent. And Ham, the father of Canaan, saw the nakedness of his father, and told his two brothers outside.  But Shem and Japheth took a garment, laid it on both their shoulders, and went backward and covered the nakedness of their father. Their faces were turned away, and they did not see their father’s nakedness (Gen 9:20-23).  

Solomon seems to speak from experience where he wrote, Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has contentions? Who has complaints? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes?  Those who linger long at the wine, Those who go in search of mixed wine. Do not look on the wine when it is red, When it sparkles in the cup, When it swirls around smoothly; At the last it bites like a serpent, And stings like a viper.  Your eyes will see strange things, And your heart will utter perverse things (Pro 23:29-33).  Some of these verses show that too much alcohol will make us utter things perverse (unseemly things for a Christian to say) and see strange things (blurred vision or the proverbial pink elephant).

Drink But Not to Drunkenness

We have already read that strong drink or wine in excessive amounts is sin and leads to poor decisions and sometimes to immorality, but this does not mean that God forbids wine and strong drink altogether.  During the Feast of Tabernacles, God told Israel that they could, exchange your tithe for silver, and take the silver with you and go to the place the LORD your God will choose.  Use the silver to buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine or other fermented drink, or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in the presence of the LORD your God and rejoice (Duet 14:24-26).  This does not mean that they can get drunk but alcohol in moderation is permissible, just as Paul told Timothy to drink “a little wine” (note that Paul said a little) for his stomach (1 Tim 5:23).

Solomon wrote that God provided blessings for His people writing, He makes grass grow for the cattle, and plants for people to cultivate— bringing forth food from the earth: wine that gladdens human hearts, oil to make their faces shine, and bread that sustains their hearts (Psalm 104:14-14).   He also wroteGo, eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine with a joyful heart, for God has already approved what you do (Eccl 9:7).

No Stumbling Blocks

I do not believe that Paul was against drinking wine because he recommends to Timothy to drink some for medicinal purposes but we know that he called drunkenness sin.   For those who have had problems with alcohol or are alcoholics, we should not drink in their presence because we can put a stumbling block of offense before them (2 Cor 6:3).  Other Christians who do not believe in drinking alcohol should be given the same respect for their abstinence.  Paul wrote about creating a stumbling block before those whose conscience does not allow them to eat meat sacrificed to idols but the same principle can certainly be applied to drinking alcohol.  Paul wrote, Be careful, however, that the exercise of your rights does not become a stumbling block to the weak.  For if someone with a weak conscience sees you, with all your knowledge, eating in an idol’s temple, won’t that person be emboldened to eat what is sacrificed to idols?  So this weak brother or sister, for whom Christ died, is destroyed by your knowledge.  When you sin against them in this way and wound their weak conscience, you sin against Christ.  Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother or sister to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause them to fall (I Cor 8:9-13).

In essence, alcohol is not the problem, people are the problem. Food is never the problem, people are the problem. Drugs are not the problem, people are the problem. I respect those who are recovering alcoholics because they realized that alcohol was their stumbling block. However, judgement should not be placed on those people who use alcohol in moderation. I don't think that I will give up a good Merlot when I want a glass or two. I know that two (2) glasses is my limit. I am responsible in that manner. 

God's Word gives both sides to drinking. For those of you that can't handle it, don't drink. For those of you who can do it, but only in moderation. Drinking is not a sin.....Being a drunk is.

Thursday, August 8, 2013










First Time Out of the Gate

You have received your first pastoral assignment in the AME Church and you feel wonderful, recognized and eager to implement all of the ideas and plans that you just know will help your church grow and be prosperous. I know the feeling, as this was my first year as a pastor. However, I would like to offer some tips to first time pastors. I found that by sticking to these simple tips, it helped me and the church that I pastor have a successful year, both spiritually and financially.  Here we go:

1.      Whatever you do, keep God first. Everything that you do will fail if God is not in it. It is all about God and never about you.
2.      Have a mission statement and vision for the church. Without a vision the people will perish and without a mission the people don’t know where they are going or what they are working towards.
3.      Do not change officers for a year. You cannot change what you don’t know. Take the year to observe your officers and if there are changes to be made and your bishop assigns you to go back, then you can make your changes.
4.      Be transparent. This is one of the most important rules to go by. Everything that your bishop or presiding elder sends you, make a copy and take it to your Official Board meeting. Also, be transparent about the finances of the church. A monthly financial report for the congregation is a must.
5.      Evangelism is a must. You must become a part of the community in which you pastor. If you are trying to increase your membership, you must get out and be seen and heard.
6.      Be a leader, but not a dictator. Check your ego at the door.
7.      Do not be ashamed to call out for help and mentoring. If you don’t know, then ask! That is what your presiding elder and colleagues are for.
8.      Do not procrastinate about raising your budget.
9.      Do not rush the people into making radical changes. Slow and steady wins the race.
10.  And finally, preach the Word! Feed God’s flock with substance and not junk. Not only will your members grow spiritually, but the church will grow in numbers. By growing spiritually, they will pass the Word to those who are looking to join the body of Christ.


Ministry is not easy, but with God and a plan we know that, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28. Enjoy the ministry, but most of all RESPECT the ministry. Watch for Part 2 soon.................

Monday, January 28, 2013

You've Got To Be Kidding Me God!



Since I have been a pastor, I have been very diligent about getting my studying done for a sermon. I write them out and I make sure that all editing and final things are done by Friday.  In the seven years that I have been preaching, I have quite a little library of sermons that I have written............

For the past three weeks, I have not been preaching the sermons that I have typed up neatly in bold print (I need new glasses), Times Roman font, 14 size lettering (because I need new glasses) and 1 1/2 inch margins. No I haven't.  For the past three weeks, God has CHANGED my sermons all together.  The first time He did it, I just thought it was because the Spirit was so high. I was at a revival when this happened so I was quite excited when this happened.  Side Note: I have always admired preachers that can preach from the Bible with no notes and STILL make sense.  Now, the following day at my own service, God DID it again!  I was in my hotel room going over my manuscript and all of a sudden my manuscript looked liked it was written in Chinese!!!  Still, I took my sermon with me to church, INTENT to preach the Word that I had written, oh but when God steps in.......Well Jesus!  It happened again yesterday while I was sitting in my seat in the pulpit.  This time I actually said, "YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME GOD!"  I was a little perturbed, yes I was, but I was obedient and I preached that Word!

I have come to the conclusion that God needed not only to get the people's attention, but mine as well.....Sometimes, God needs for a preacher to know that HE is the one that makes your ministry happen and NOT YOU and I.  Preachers must realize this importance of submitting fully to the will of God, of "giving" ourselves away so that God can fully use you.  Only when we do this will the full realization of God's plan for your ministry will bless you and your church.  We are only servants to do the ministry of God.  Let me repeat that, we are ONLY SERVANTS to do the ministry of God.

My Father told me to preach His Word His way and all I can say to that is, "Not my will Lord, but Thy will be done!" 

Friday, January 25, 2013

Busy, Busy, Busy!




OMG!!!! I did not know that I could be so busy that I have neglected this blog! You want to know what I have been doing? I have been busy pastoring a church, working my secular job, working hard to lose weight, writing sermons, being WIM (Women in Ministry) secretary, Official Board meetings, First Quarterly meeting, Christmas, raising money, preaching the Word, planning programs, singing, taking care of the grandbandit on some weekends, preparing to move to the town where my church is, spending time with my crazy children and the list goes on and on!  Soemtimes, I feel like the clown in the circus with the juggling act. 

With all of that said, I have learned the importance of rest.  I have to make myself rest, I really do.  Sometimes, I don't have sense enough to know that when my big toe refuses to move that it is time for me to shut it down. I was on the phone with a friend of mine and I swear that I was talking, ok, I wasn't talking but I thought I was. Anyway, the next thing I knew, she was screaming my name and I woke up saying, "I know that's right girl!"  Now, ask me what the sister said....I really couldn't tell you what the child said. Needless to say, she laughed and told me to take my behind to bed.

Rest is important for any preacher, especially a bi-vocational preacher.  You can't take care of your congrgants properly if you are not taking care of yourself physically.  Let me offer some suggestions on relaxation:
  • Take a day off from EVERYTHING!  Trust me, it will all be there waiting on you.
  • Find a quiet place to be alone with your thoughts.  I have found that the gym is my sancutary.  I can put my headphones on and concentrate on me without any interferance while I workout.
  • Slow down and breathe!  Everything does not have to be ASAP.
  • You do not have to be Superwoman/man.....Assign someone else to help you with a program.  That's what your boards are for.
  • Go to bed at a reasonable hour.....Far too many preachers are burning the midnight oil on Saturday nights trying to write a sermon.  My formula for writing a sermon is: Monday-off, Tuesday-Prayer and look at lectionary or go to where God led me to, Wednesday-more study and start writing, Thursday-finish writing, Friday-re-read, edit and finish.  This works quite well for me and I can get to bed on time on Saturday night.
  • Make a monthly calendar of Communion visits and Sick and Shut-In visits.
  • Schedule a day for something fun for you or, if you have a family, to do.
  • Eat healthy.  A healthy body functions better. Your mind is sharper and you will have more stamina.  Sugary snacks will give you an initial rush, but you will come crashing hard.  Drink plenty of water and follow the food pyramid below: 
 
Finally, pray and pray!  Even when you are tired, just pray!  Ask God to give you strength and stamina for this journey. But they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint." Isaiah 40:31
 
Just remember, RELAX, RELATE AND RELEASE........Blessings!


Monday, October 29, 2012

Clergy Shirts for Women Are of Satan!


Bless my mom's heart, she bought me a clergy shirt recently.  I already have one in black and so she felt that I needed a white one.  I was quite excited to receive this impromptu gift because, first, it was from my mom and secondly, I needed another clergy shirt.  However, I am CONVINCED that women's clericals are of SATAN!  They never fit right, they are too doggone hot and just plain unfashionable and uncomfortable!  I am convinced that satan gave some man the idea of creating these hideous garments just like the underwire bra.  Only a man would put wires and plastic in a garment that women have to wear.  If you haven't guessed by now, I am disappointed by the selections that we women clergy have in the way of clericals.

My journey into the clericals land has not been a joyous one.  It is oftentimes frustrating and hopeless.  I try not to wear clericals if at all possible.  However, there are times when I have to put on that torturous garment  that does absolutely nothing for my fashion sense and comfort.  It is an inhumane piece of clothing and I am sure that many of my female colleagues have had the same experience as I.

But wait!!!! Help is on the way my sisters if you are willing to spend a few extra dollars.  I figure that if I spend $54 for one ill-fitting shirt now that I can put another $25-$100 with that $54 to get me a shirt that fits well and looks good.  Here are some companies that I have found.

Stitches of Ayrhttp://shop.stitchesofayr.com/Womens-Shirts_c8.htm)- A company out of Canada that:   Stitches of Ayr aims to "Redesign the Uniform" by bringing modern styling, comfort, and eco-sensitive fabrics to clerical clothing and vestments. The unique styling of our clerical shirts allows for the clergy person to be stylish, comfortable, and approachable, while still maintaining the significance of the clergy collar.   
red womens clergy shirt short sleeve.red womens clergy shirt short sleeve.  These shirts cost $90 each.

Spiritual Apparel (http://www.spiritualapparel.com)- This company specializes in the custom "Janie" of sorts. The Women's Clerical Bodice is made of a fine, lightweight, pre-washed suiting material that is a Cotton/Polyester/Lycra blend. The fabric moves and breathes comfortably with the body for optimal comfort and wearability.  It comes as a full band collar or as a tab collar.  This item was featured in TLC's, "What Not to Wear" when they featured a woman Episcopalian priest for a make-over.  It is $90.
   
Casual Priest (http://www.casualpriest.com) This company is out of Sweden..Lordy, I am going to save to get one of these shirts!
 EVA slim sleeve thunder blue $149 EVA black and they come in a variety of colors!  

Finally, shirts that fit! I am ordering a few of these today and I bind my other shirts in the name of Jesus and toss them back into the pits of hell! 


Monday, October 22, 2012

Halloween Has Been Cancelled!



To say that I don't believe in Halloween is an under statement.  I absolutely abhor this secular holiday.  For the whole month of October my cable television runs rampant with every creepy show that they can dig up, big bags of candy practically invades the grocery store shelves and costumes ranging from cute to trampy to scary cost as much as a good handbag!  I do not like this holiday and I fail to see how giving out a bunch of sugary "crack" to children that are already close to "OD'ing" is conducive to them and myself.

I was not always like this.  I remember that my mom allowed us to dress up and go "begging" for candy when I was growing up.  "It's the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown" was one of my favorite holiday specials to watch and as I got older, the haunted houses were frequented by me and my friends.  As I became an adult and had children of my own, I even allowed them to dress up and go around the neighborhood "begging" for candy.  Something changed. I went into the ministry. My mindset changed and I started to research the true meaning of the holidays that I celebrated.  This is what I discovered from Wikipedia:


History

Etymology

The word Halloween was first used in the 16th century and represents a Scottish variant of the fuller All-Hallows'-Even ('evening'), that is, the night before All Hallows' Day.[10] Although the phrase All Hallows' is found in Old English (ealra hālgena mæssedæg, mass-day of all saints), All-Hallows-Even is itself not seen until 1556.[10]

Celtic influences

Though the origin of the word Halloween is Christian, the holiday is commonly thought to have pagan roots.[11] Historian Nicholas Rogers, exploring the origins of Halloween, notes that while "some folklorists have detected its origins in the Roman feast of Pomona, the goddess of fruits and seeds, or in the festival of the dead called Parentalia, it is more typically linked to the Celtic festival ofSamhain", which comes from the Old Irish for "summer's end".[11] Samhain (pronounced sah-win or sow-in) was the first and most important of the four quarter days in the medieval Gaelic (IrishScottish and Manx)[12] calendar.[13][14] It was held on or about 31 October–1 November and kindred festivals were held at the same time of year in other Celtic lands; for example the Brythonic Calan Gaeaf (in Wales), Kalan Gwav (in Cornwall) and Kalan Goañv (in Brittany). Samhain is mentioned in some of the earliest Irish literatureand many important events in Irish mythology happen or begin on Samhain. It marked the end of the harvest season and the beginning of winter or the 'darker half' of the year.[15] This was a time for stock-taking and preparing for the cold winter ahead;[11] cattle were brought back down from the summer pastures and livestock were slaughtered.[15] In much of the Gaelic world, bonfires were lit and there were rituals involving them.[15] Some of these rituals hint that they may once have involved human sacrifice.[16][11] Divinationgames or rituals were also done at Samhain.[15]
Samhain (like Beltane) was seen as a time when the 'door' to the Otherworld opened enough for the souls of the dead, and other beings such as fairies, to come into our world.[17][18] The souls of the dead were said to revisit their homes on Samhain.[19] Feasts were had, at which the souls of dead kin were beckoned to attend and a place set at the table for them.[20] Lewis Spence described it as a "feast of the dead" and "festival of the fairies".[21] However, harmful spirits and fairies were also thought to be active at Samhain. People took steps to allay or ward-off these harmful spirits/fairies, which is thought to have influenced today's Halloween customs. Before the 20th century, wearing costumes at Samhain was done in parts of IrelandMann, the Scottish Highlands and islands, andWales.[22] Wearing costumes may have originated as a means of disguising oneself from these harmful spirits/fairies, although some suggest that the custom comes from a Christian or Christianized belief (see below). In Ireland, people went about before nightfall collecting for Samhain feasts and sometimes wore costumes while doing so.[22] In the 19th century on Ireland's southern coast, a man dressed as a white mare would lead youths door-to-door collecting food; by giving them food, the household could expect good fortune from the 'Muck Olla'.[23] In Moray during the 18th century, boys called at each house in their village asking for fuel for the Samhain bonfire.[24] Trick-or-treating may thus have come from the custom of going door-to-door collecting food for Samhain feasts, fuel for Samhain bonfires and/or Samhain offerings for the spirits and fairies. Alternatively, it may come from the Christian custom ofsouling (see below). Making jack-o'-lanterns at Halloween may also have sprung from Samhain and Celtic beliefs. Turnip lanterns, sometimes with faces carved into them, were made on Samhain in the 19th century in parts of Ireland and the Scottish Highlands.[25]As well as being used to light one's way while outside on Samhain night, they may also have been used to represent the spirits/fairies and/or to protect oneself and one's home from them.

So I got to thinking: Why would I celebrate the dead? Why do I need to ward off evil spirits? Isn't this awfully close to witchcraft and the occult? Do I conform myself to what is popular by the world's standard or, " Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2
I choose the Word.  Halloween at my house has been cancelled for a long time.  I have a granddaughter now and her parents are more than likely going to dress her up as a cute little pumpkin or princess and take her "begging" for "sugary crack" on the 31st.  I just know that when she gets to my house, I will slip a WWJD (What Would Jesus Do) bracelet over her slender little wrist.  As a matter of fact, I think I will go stock up on those WWJD bracelets and hand them out to any child that knocks on my door. Sorry kiddos, but Halloween Has Been Cancelled!

Thursday, October 4, 2012

I'se A Pastor Now!!!!




The "Color Purple" has always been one of my favorite movies and in the movie Shug Avery gets married and in trying to gain favor from her preacher father, she holds up her properly ringed hand and says, "I'se married now! I say, I'se married now!"  She was proud of herself and didn't mind proclaiming it loud and clear.  I feel just like Shug Avery and I want to throw up my sanctified hands and say, "I'SE A PASTOR NOW! I SAY, I'SE A PASTOR NOW!"

All country talk aside, I have a charge that the Elder sent me to pastor. I was sent amid some trying circumstances that I will not elaborate on, but I am glad that I was obedient and went.  I felt the Lord doing something with my ministry all during Annual Conference and I felt that he was moving me into a position to not just lead choirs, but to shepherd people.  I prayed and sought counsel from my ministerial family and I knew that it was time.  I could no longer sit under the protection of what was my comfort zone (my home church).  I had to get on out there and do what God had trained me to do.

I have always liken myself to a baby bird.  Baby  birds cannot fly when they are born.  The are cared for by the parents until they grow big enough for the mother bird to literally push them out of the nest and then the bird had better fly or it will fall to the ground and die.  God literally pushed me from the nest and made me fly. He spoke to me and said, "You're a big girl now. I have called you and set you apart.  Trust me to take your ministry higher.  I love you, but you have to leave home in order for me to expand your territory." So with a mighty push, God kicked me out of the nest so that I can fly. It's scary, but little by little I am climbing a little higher.  My arms are getting stronger with each flight. I have had some wobbly take offs, but I have managed to land on my feet. I see a whole vast sky in front of me and I want to be able to fly until I hear the Lord say, "Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!"  

I am a proud pastor over a people who are truly genuine and wonderful.  Together, we will take this wonderful flight into the sky of serving God.  I am no longer a baby bird.  My Father in Heaven gave me wings to fly.  So with that, I throw up my sanctified hands and say, "I'SE A PASTOR NOW! I SAY, I'SE A PASTOR NOW!"